Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Top 10 Tips for the first Date!


  • Set it up: An unforgettable first date starts with a solid setup. When you call her a day or two after getting her number, do not waste time on the phone. Get straight to business.
  • If she says no: If you ask her out and she says, “I’m sorry, I have plans,” just say, “Cancel them! I’m more fun than whatever you’re doing.” Even if she doesn’t cancel (she probably won’t though), she’ll get a laugh, and it’ll at least show that you’re confident.
  • Make her feel at home: Make her feel at home. Do not act being extra nice, extra courteous, kissing up, and letting her lead.
  • Play around with her: Never give a direct answer, unless the answer is no. If she says, “Can we sit here?”; say, “No, let’s sit in this one next to it.”
  • Turn it up: If she complains about you or doesn’t like something you are doing say, “I’m glad you like it,” and then do it more. This sends a clear signal that she can’t control or manipulate you by complaining like a little girl.
  • Keep your composure: Most men can’t keep their composure when a woman tests them. But losing your composure is one of the fastest ways to lose your chances with a woman.
  • Build attraction: Most guys confuse the word “attractive” with the word “attraction.” Attractive is how a person looks while attraction is an emotion. The thing to remember here is that women can feel a very powerful attraction towards a man who’s not attractive physically.
  • Make it memorable: We tend to remember the first time we do things and you can use this to your advantage when hanging out with a woman. Find out something she has never done before, and incorporate it into your first date. This is the best way to make a lasting impression. She’ll never forget the date and, more importantly she’ll never forget you.
  • Make your move: Obviously, men are the ones expected to ‘make a move”. So make your move, because that is what the woman expects you to do.
  • Leave her alone: When you’re out together, leave her alone once in awhile. Women find this kind of independent man extremely attractive

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